The trouble with this little aphorism is that people disagree strongly about "what is" and "what must be changed" -- that's what politics is all about.

For me personally, I'd change this to "It is what it is right now; I'll get back to it later."

I don't remember when I figured that out (well, mostly) but it's one of those A-HA! moments that stick with you (with the occasional reminder - thanks!).

Paul,

It does have a bit of sadness/ fatalism in it, though, doesn't it? When I first read it this morning in my inbox, my email was being a pain and I couldn't see the image. Reading only the words, I thought, what's the matter with Paul? (I hope nothing.)

You may be surprised to hear that in the U.S., this phrase has been banished. :)

With apologies, a slightly different take from my Irish background:

God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change
the Courage to change the things I can
and the Wisdom to know the difference.

Sending Serenity to you,

Kelly

This phrase is a great phrase to use when you need to cut off someone from complaining or gossiping. It's like a negative energy repellent. I know cuz my boyfriend uses it on me! It works pretty good.

Crystal